So, back when “O” worked for the biggest mall here in our city, he used to go on work trips to other cities either to open another branch or for further training.

He’d be gone for 3 days to a week, I don’t even remember exactly how long he\’d be gone for because it’s been so long ago, but whenever he’d go on these out of town trips, we’d check in with each other through calls and texts.

I’m the first one he texts the moment he wakes up and I’m the last one he talks to before he goes to bed, sometimes, when he’s gone for more than 3 days, we send each other racy texts or videos, just because that\’s the kind of marriage we have. We don\’t do PDAs (public display of affection) but we\’re freaks freakishly intimate behind closed doors.😂

It’s a given that if you ask me, my husband is a 100/10. He is perfectly imperfect and I love everything about him, his positive traits and even his negative traits, think 10 Thing I Hate About You with Heath Ledger and Julia Stiles.

To me, he’s like Edward and Jacob in one; he has the intelligence, patience and maturity of Edward and he has Jacob’s carefree, silly and playful side. Only TwiHards will get it but if you know, you know.😊

So although it isn\’t obvious to the public, because we don\’t do public displays of affection, cause eww, we love and respect each other very, very deeply. In July, we celebrate our 23rd year anniversary.

So, When Did This Happen?

So, thing thing happened 12 years ago when he went to Laoag to open a store for the company he works with. It coincided with his 39th birthday and of course he celebrated his birthday with his colleagues and friends he worked with.

He probably has told me this story in passing but either I was busy doing something or I forgot about it. Or I probably rolled my eyes so hard I got amnesia because I can\’t remember it.😅 But, we’ve had 3 kids, all through C-section, so I was heavily drugged 3x and my memory isn’t even that good to begin with, so it’s worse after we had kids, so, if I don\’t remember this particular event, it\’s not weird at all.😂

What Exactly Happened?

This was supposed to be 12 years ago when I turned 39, coinciding with the opening of Savemore Laoag, it was in December. It was one of the most memorable birthdays I’ve had because I proved my faithfulness to my wife, when I got drunk and I was invited to a room by one of the people we drank with (hehe) but I declined… More so, led by my friends who had good intentions, right Friend 1 and Friend 2, do you remember this?😁

Rough English Translation of his post.

The first time I read it, I laughed, because that’s hilarious and then I was touched because even though I wasn’t there and he could have easily gotten away with it, I’m not friends with the colleagues he was with at the time. I knew them as his co-workers and they knew me as his wife, we didn’t have a friendship, he could’ve gotten away with cheating on me, 100%, but he politely declined.

But then as I read it again and as he told me what happened for the nth time, my curiosity was piqued – who was this lady who was willing to bed a married man with small kids? I know for a fact he talks about our kids and even if he didn\’t on that specific trip, we’re all over his socials, it’s pretty hard to miss that he’s a married man and back then, all his posts were set to “public”, it was 2011.

Even if they weren’t friends on Facebook or Instagram and she took a liking to him, she would’ve checked his profile out FOR SURE, 100%.

And if she somehow didn\’t check out his socials, which I highly doubt, what single, straight guy wears a ring that looks like a wedding band on his ring finger anyway? Seriously! The blatant disregard for his civil status is so infuriating.🤬

His colleagues noticed that she took a liking to him, like she would always choose the seat next to him, laugh at all his jokes, even the ones that are not even that funny, that sort of thing.🙄

And then his birthday comes around and they go drinking, as we did in those days to celebrate. Surprise, surprise, she went drinking with them.🙄 \”O\” got drunk, not completely wasted, he had the sense to stop himself from drinking and was on his way back to his room when she had the audacity to suggest he go back to hers.

From this point on, I wanted to hunt her down and skin her alive.🤬

⚠️WARNING: EXPLETIVES AHEAD

The fucking audacity to ask a married man to go back to her room, to do exactly what?! Obviously, she wanted to fucking bed him. What a disgusting pond scum, at least a whore gets paid to do it, she was willing to give it away for FREE! No, she\’s lower than the fungus that feeds on the pond scum! No, actually lower, as Michael O\’Neal said to Julianne Potter in My Best Friend\’s Wedding, she\’s \”the pus that infects the mucous… that cruds up the fungus… that feeds on the pond scum.\”.

She was lucky I was nowhere near there and I didn\’t witness the way she flirted with my husband, because even though I\’m not the jealous type, I\’m VERY fucking territorial, especially when it comes to my husband.

I\’ve never been the jealous type not because I\’m overly confident with myself. \”O\” has never given me a reason to be jealous, people check him out and flirt with him all the time, he\’s overly friendly and sometimes women misinterpret that as flirting, but I know that\’s as far as they can go with him, he would never cheat on me and risk destroying our family.

I also know my worth and he knows that cheating on me will not grant him any second chances because that\’s the only deal breaker for me, I love myself too much to endure something like that.

It\’s just like what Sex and The City\’s Samantha Jones once said to Richard Wright, \”I love you, but I love Me more.\”.

There\’s absolutely nothing wrong with loving yourself and I know people have judged me for this for years, they say I only say or think this but that if it happened to me, I might find myself changing my mind, but I know myself and I know that if \”O\” cheated on me, I\’d forgive him, for sure, but I would never let him back in my life as a husband because I know that if he cheated on me, God has something way better planned for me.

And Then What Happened?

Anyway, I finally calmed down after going on a shooting spree on GTA V. All those innocent NPCs, they lost their virtual lives because of a pus that infects the mucous that cruds up the fungus that feeds on the pond scum.

But, I was happy. \”O\” did not succumb to temptation, I have my late father in law to thank for that and one day, I will get to thank him, but thank you and God ever so much for always watching out for us and tapping him on the shoulder to remind him to do what\’s right.🙏🏻💐

So that\’s what I\’m choosing to focus on. I no longer have a desire to hunt her down and skin her alive just a little bit. Does she need a fast pass to hell? Absofuckinglutely. But that\’s not my place to do so anymore. I\’m lucky my husband did the right thing, but how many other married men has she successfully conquered after him? How many families has she ruined? That makes my blood boil.

DON\’T GO AFTER MARRIED PEOPLE PERIODT!

I will never understand why some people go after married people. There\’s literally a gajillion people in the whole world and you go after the people that you\’re NOT supposed to?

You\’re a shit person and there\’s a special place in hell for you.